I can't help but feel that I need to wrap up my guy and give it to my brother in the name of sacrifice and all because I know his meant a lot to him as well. I expressed to my daughter my feelings to which she said, "Not the elf! He's special, we all love him. You can't give him to Dave!" I didn't realize that he meant something to someone other than me. That changed things....but I still feel guilty that I have one and David doesn't. Maybe we can do joint custody. I'll think about it.